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Four-star general and former head of the CIA, David Petraeus, is the latest casualty in the ranks of powerful men who love and lose. Why are these men thirty percent more likely to risk all for a little extra nooky? Do their brains work differently than the average man? Are they more likely to get away with it? Do they really loose or, like Bill Clinton, do they rebound stronger than ever?
? Research on power and sexuality shows us four major reasons why powerful men want more and also take more than the average guy. Petraeus and countless power men before him have what mere mortal men do not have?an overabundance of BAHL:?????????
?Brains are wired differently
? Powerful men are more likely to be addicted to adrenalin rushes and will take increasing risks in both their professional and personal lives to maintain their adrenalin high. Research show us that specific areas of the brain light up when people feel powerful. A lit up brain combined with a power mindset commands an uncommon carnal curiosity. However, at times, a cigar is just a cigar and not a sex toy.
?Ample availability
? Men of position and power tend to travel more frequently and for longer periods of time than most men. Lonely and looking, it takes no effort at all to pair with a woman willing to pass some passionate time together. Power, the absolute aphrodisiac for women, causes many to disregard risk of public disgrace as they fall at the feet or phallus of a powerful man.
?High confidence quotient
? Radiating high levels of confidence from their successes, these men feel invulnerable. Their inflated degree of confidence causes them to believe they will never get caught. On the rare occasion of exposure, their ample abilities and resources serve to conceal their affairs from public scrutiny. Arnold Schwarzenegger confidently covered up his in-house domestic-with- benefits for more than 14 years. It remains to be seen how long Petraeus has hidden his long-standing association with his biographer, Paula Broadwell. Only the FBI?s concern about her possible access to classified information brought the affair to the light of public opinion.
?Live in a bubble of collusion
? Powerful men, like Petraeus, are surrounded by operatives dedicated to protecting the power person. Their collusion stems from their belief in their leader and their willingness to look the other way. Others collude and conspire to retain the benefits of the rewards and protections afforded by the inner circle. Whatever the reason, these folks are willing to challenge neither the thinking nor the behavior of their superior, leading to an unrealistic self-view of the power person.
?Powerful men with their hot-wired brains and extreme self-confidence will always attract women who will take great risks to be with them. Due to the bubble of collusion they are rarely challenged or caught. David Petraeus will bounce back just like the powerful men before him. He committed no crime and has a great deal to offer the U.S. He will not be the Director of the CIA because of the possible security risks inherent in clandestine affairs, but mark my words; he?ll soon be in another power position.
?In the next blog let?s look at why women are attracted to powerful men. Thanks for stopping by. I?d love for you to share your thoughts before you leave. ?
You may also like to read:
? The Infidelity of General Petraeus by Gina Putt
? Why Do Powerful Men Risk It All to Cheat? By Dr. Terri Orbuch
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